More Than a Cheating Heart: What to Do When Your Husband Refuses Help for Sex Addiction

Posted on May 27th, 2011

More Than a Cheating Heart: What to Do When Your Husband Refuses Help for Sex AddictionBitter, depressed, betrayed, anxious, and fearful, feeling unloved and unlovable – all these and more are the province of the wife whose husband has sex addiction and refuses help for it. That is, it’s this way for most women. Some may feel nothing at all, having lost or deadened their emotions as a way of coping.

Fighting the Good Fight in A Recovering Relationship

Posted on May 19th, 2011

By Robert Weiss LCSW, CSAT-S

Looking away as tears trickled from her vibrant blue eyes, Miriam discussed a recent fight with her spouse Joe.

Sex Addiction, Schwarzenegger and Strauss-Kahn: Understanding Why Men in Power Act Out

Posted on May 16th, 2011

Yesterday International Monetary Fund (IMF) chief Dominique Strauss-Kahn was charged with a criminal sexual act and attempted rape. Today Arnold Schwarzenegger admitted to fathering a child with a housekeeper/maid during the course of his marriage with Maria Shriver – causing their separation.

Should I Stay or Should I Go? Deciding if a Relationship is Right for the Long-Term

Posted on May 12th, 2011

By Robert Weiss LCSW, CSAT-S

Jason is troubled. Despite a solid year of dating Ellen, the kind of woman all his friends call "a keeper", he is having doubts about whether or not he wants to remain together. While nothing specifically bad has gone wrong happened, he is worried that they are growing apart. "When we first met it was magic, we couldn’t get enough of each other in every way, our sex-life was intense and frequent. Now it’s like we are bored with each other and my interests – sexual and otherwise – are wandering toward others. Does this mean that Ellen may not be the right girl after all? How do I figure this out?"