The Lure and Power of Prostitution for Sex Addicts – Part 2

This is the second in a two-part series.

While some addiction specialists, even those who work closely with sex addicts, may not agree that sex work itself can become a stand-alone addiction, or even its own distinct type of sexual addiction, Paul Hokemeyer, a noted Manhattan marriage and family therapist, disagrees. “You can get addicted to the affirmation of being valued by someone for your body,” he says, “although it’s a very linear form of validating yourself that’s unhealthy and destructive. Money can help assign value to a person in a way that’s not terribly different from someone carrying a Louis Vuitton bag. Being able to say ‘I’m worth $300 for 15 minutes’ can be validating for someone with no self-esteem.” (Ackerman, 2014)

The Lure and Power of Prostitution for Sex Addicts – Part 1

This is the first in a two-part series. It comes from a discussion with an escort and webcam girl working in a major U.S. city. Her name and city have been changed for this article.

Sex Addictions are on the Rise and Some People are More at Risk than Others

Sex addiction is a very touchy subject. Admitting to an addiction of any type is tough to do, but when it involves sex, the odds of facing up to it are even lower. A sex addiction, also known as hypersexual disorder or compulsive sexual behavior, is an obsession with feelings, thoughts, or behaviors that are sexual in nature and which negatively affect aspects of your life. A sex addiction can be very destructive and can lead to damaged relationships, lowered self-esteem, lost careers, and more devastating effects.

Prostitution Addiction: Uproot the Cause, Correct False Beliefs

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