trauma

How Traumatic is Infidelity?

Posted on July 29th, 2013

Most sex addicts do not think about the pain they may be causing to their spouse or long-term partner. It’s not that they don’t care; it’s that they simply avoid thinking about or even considering the damage they are doing. Typically this damage occurs on two levels. First there is the pain and hurt caused by the actual infidelity, and then there is the agony caused by all the lying, secret keeping, and covering up. Oftentimes this second part, the dishonesty, is what ultimately causes the most distress to the cheated on spouse.

The Effects of PTSD on Relationships

Posted on October 11th, 2012

Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) can result from living through combat, being the victim of a violent crime, experiencing a devastating disaster and other traumatizing incidents. The condition has serious implications not only for the person who survives these traumas, but often for those closest to the survivor as well. PTSD negatively impacts relationships in terms of intimacy, trust, effective communication and the ability to strategize toward problem resolution. If you or someone you love is living with PTSD here are some things to keep in mind.