Man’s Interest in Sex May Remain Steady for Years, Contradicting Previous Beliefs

In short, a man’s sex drive may remain at about the same levels for years in a committed relationship, while a woman’s may decline – even on a month-to-month basis, suggest researchers.

A recent study from the University of Ontario is looking more closely at the subject of sex drive in committed couples, with results published in the Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy. The findings are in contradiction to long-held beliefs that sex drive goes downhill for both men and women as the relationship gains in age.

Using a tool called the Female Sexual Function Index, 170 participants worked through questions to determine a ranking on the index. Researchers noted that as each month went by, a measurable decrease in sexual interest seemed to occur for the women. They concluded that the amount of time a relationship has endured is a stronger link to sexual satisfaction than other factors, like the state of the relationship.

Another finding many may find surprising from the study is that men who experience a drop in sex drive are reluctant to talk about the situation – which can reflect mainstream beliefs toward masculinity and sex.

The findings could also have implications toward research on sexual addictions, because more men than women are believed to experience the powerful and consuming addiction. As the relationship progresses over the years, sex drives may not match up and may require more creative efforts and more communication.

If the need for additional stimulus to generate sexual interest prompts people to begin using online pornography or other tools, especially without their partner’s knowledge, they may be at higher risk for sexual or pornography addiction.